Tom, The white mast looks to be a fractional rig (forestay some distance from the top and swept back spreaders). It's made to be bendy. Funny, I am dealing with exactly the same issue as I am relatively new to my boat too. I just had a topping lift and foreguy added by Easom Rigging and he noticed that my mast was too vertical in his opinion. That's because I tightened the forestay just like you did. I did this because I would run out of backstay adjustment and the headstay would still be too loose. The standing rigging is 5 years old. Current solution (on his recommendation is... Re-adjust forestay (lengthen) and shorten the backstay. Then sail and adjust so there is a small amount of weather helm. When the boat is at rest, release the backstay so that there is no bend. When sailing, add backstay pressure and amount of bend for conditions (wind, waves,) to remove-reduce mast pumping. One thing he said that sticks with me is "A straight mast can lead to more mast pumping". Which is what my boat is doing. Now this advice is specific to my boat. Things are different for masts the don't bend and more critical for fractional rigs.