Well, here's the update, finally. We're still on the hard, but the cover is off and the weather was mild today (60 degrees, westerly breeze less than 10 knots).
First, I loosened the backstay, four full turns on the hydraulic backstay.
Next, I moved into the salon and loosened the rod on the chain plate in question (forward-most, starboard side). I took it 1/4 turn at a time. After 9 turns (2 1/4 full rotations), it creaked and felt rather loose. I realigned the rod so that it appears centered, which I was able to do with my hands--no additional force required, and then I held the rod in position as I tightened 2.25 rotations.
The rod is now centered (actually a bit more to stern than forward), and the aft end of the deadman is back in position in the plywood, with its aft end sticking out toward the stern, abutting the fiberglass.
All is well.
Now I just have to convince the insurance underwriter that the surveyor just didn't understand the adjustable Ericson chain plate engineering!
Phew!
Thanks for all your great input and support.