Sean, good observations. I don't have ready access to the boat with my camera. (She's 2 hours away and I'm busy with work right now.) I'm, sadly, a somewhat of a long distance sailor. I live at the edge of the mountains in Virginia, and sail on the Chesapeake Bay.
The new laminated beam installed last year under the deck hasn't, to my knowledge, come apart. It was installed to stop deck flexing which we thought was the force breaking loose the tabbing at the bulkhead bottom. We did not note any loose tabbing at the bulkhead deck joint, but found plenty at the bulkhead hull joint. (I'd need to loook again to be sure it's not attached to the glassed-in grid.) So the boatyard who did the repair didn't think there was water intrusion from the dorade debacle beyond the deck coring (which they replaced with balsa, rather than the original plywood). We didn't look for the nightmare that the bulkhead might be rotting away from water above. Also I think they would've noticed water damage when they ground away the old tabbing at the bulkhead bottom.
Now they are suggesting that the real culprit is hull flexing and that the problem might be in the grid. Your and Steve's thoughts towards triple checking for water damage are valid.