We purchased an adapter years ago from Corp Brothers that allowed us to use the CNG filling stations, like the ones that the utilities use. In our case there was one in Flint MI that was not too far a drive. You might just take a tank to a welding supply store and show them what you have, and explain that you just need to be able to attach it to the quick release fitting at a filling station, and I bet they would have the parts you need.
BUT, the danger here is that the filling stations have (or at least had) two pressures available at the pump. ~3000 psig, and 4500 psig. The first is what you need, the second will dangerously overfill your tank. And the problem is that the fittings are the same, so that there is no way to idiot proof the process. In fact some years ago Corp Brothers sent me a registered letter informing me that my adapter was no longer safe to use and that I should dispose of it. (I ended up giving it away when I sold the boat.)
The other option is to contact Thomas Hardware in Grosse Point Farms outside Detroit. They were the last place I knew of to do CNG exchanges in the Detroit area.
Good Luck!