Thanks all.
Ours didn't come with a support, and had lived that way for 36 years. But it does seem like a lot of stress to put on the elements. That riser is a lot of mass cantilevered out on the pipes.
This E38 owner had a similar problem years ago:
https://ericsonyachts.org/ie/threads/universal-5432-m40-exhaust-elbow.5412/post-76434
And this was ours:

Again, this was
after the mechanic had taken all that apart and put it back together. One would think if it were that close to breaking they would have noticed it. Anyway . . . The one bit of good news there is that the bolts are likely not frozen.
It makes sense that the vibration differential between hull and engine makes the overhead a poor place to connect it. Ken, your solution looks like a good place to mount a support if I do put one in. What motivated you to put the support on?
@bigd14 That hump hose is interesting. Is it stiff enough to still offer some support?
Seaboard Marine has a number of pages with helpful information. This is one:
Proper Exhaust Bracing
www.sbmar.com
Some kind of rubber buffer might make sense. Now that we've had it break, I feel like I should do something.
Any further comments, experiences, and insights are most welcome.
Thanks,
Jeff