Ref: Fuel-line thread sealants:
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Backyard mechanics will tell you they've used regular old gas resistant teflon tape (yellow stuff) with success. This is not recommended because it risks breaking free. Liquid or paste type thread sealants are kinder to sensitive components down stream. Mechanics repairing injectors, fuel pumps and carburetors can tell you firsthand it is not uncommon to trace fault in the fuel component to clogging from a piece of Teflon tape that washed off the ends of the threads, clogging in the first tiny micron orifice it encounters, if not the fuel pump then an injector or carburetor gallery. Either way, it's a costly repair. Liquid or paste type sealant won't clog. For gasoline, regular old gasoline resistant Aviation Form-a-gasket Number 3 is the best option. Another product also offered by Permatex is the High Temperature Thread Sealant. Tech data on this sealant says it has medium solvent resistance and is recommended for fuel sender type applications. With the advent of ethanol present in modern gasoline, try Form-a-gasket No. 3.
I've used Gasoila thread sealant and Permatex Aviation Form-A-Gasket on oil & fuel fittings.
Ref: The 12V wiring to the pump:
On many boats, Ericson "cheated" and didn't run a dedicated wire from the engine panel to the pump. On mine, they spliced into the small (18ga, I think) alternator excitation lead (purple wire). It worked okay, but I think that wire was undersized for the long run from the engine panel.
It might be worthwhile to plan for the future a bit here: Think about all the things in the engine compartment you might someday want powered from the ON side of the engine panel (fuel pump, alternator excitation, hour-meter, future temperature/pressure alarms, etc), then run a heavier gauge wire (say, 10GA) from the engine panel to a fuse block in the engine compartment.
This way, you have only one wire running power from the panel back to the engine, and then individual fuses for each item powered by that wire. You can see more on engine panel re-wiring ideas here:
https://ericsonyachts.org/ie/ubs/another-engine-panel-upgrade-pt-1.701/
For the ground, most folks mount a ground-bus-bar near the engine to collect
ALL the grounds on the boat (batteries, engine panel, main electrical panel, other individual devices).
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